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I don't like the term 'sexpert' because I don't think I'm an expert at anything. We give the advice that we wish we would have had. We learn more every day. We can only know as much as we've experienced. We're all biased. Got more questions? Check my FAQ below.
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I don’t believe you should take anyone’s advice. I think advice is just a best recommendation provided by someone with the information they have, the bias they have, the time they have. Get advice from multiple people and use that advice to make an informed decision. You have to listen to your heart and your brain – sometimes one more than the other. If advice makes you feel something it’s done it’s job. Either it makes you angry, it makes you happy, or it makes you sad, but those emotions will drive you towards your answer.