What I Kept Of My Ex Pt. 2

It’s time for another look at “What I Kept Of My Ex” (Click to read the first post if you missed it!)

There’s something about the end of the year that makes people sentimental.

Maybe it’s the good old holiday spirit, maybe it’s being back in your old bedroom, or maybe it’s just having enough time off work to start dwelling on your mistakes. We keep things – and usually there is a reason why. You hated that person. That was a failed relationship. It hurts when you think of what used to be. The feeling of joy is overwhelming.

What is something that your ex gave you that you kept – and why did you keep it?

Submit one photo and a brief description or story of the item to ask@suggestivetongue.com and I’ll share your submission in a collection on my blog. Submission to this post acts as consent to have your photo and story shared. You can change your mind at any time.

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The List is In: Top 100 Sex Bloggers

Every year, surely through the pure labor of love, a list of the top 100 sex bloggers is born. I am grateful to be included again this year, among other new and old talents.

If you have some time today, take a few moments to pour over this list, and leave these writers some love in the form of a comment.

Top 100 Sex Bloggers 2017

Thanks to all involved in this process, which does feel exactly like Christmas Eve.

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NEED ADVICE? Ask Now! Free, Anonymous, Quick.

At the core of suggestivetongue.com is my advice column. I wanted to be sure my readers knew that this piece of my blog is here to stay as it is and always will be.


Need advice? Want to learn more about a particular topic? Submit anonymously 24/7 and I will answer on my site!

Common submissions cover these popular topics: sex, sexuality, gender, love, infidelity, relationships, communication, career, personal growth.

Need advice on something else? I can help – or connect you to someone who can!

Submission can be phrased like a question:

  • My partner and I keep fighting, what should we do?
  • What is the best kind of lubricant?
  • Where can I learn more about applying for jobs?
  • What are your favorite books on communication?
  • I’m experiencing pain during sex, what’s wrong?

Submission can be phrased like a prompt:

  • Write more about infidelity
  • Talk about sex toy materials
  • A post about feminist writers

Need advice? Want a third-party opinion? Don’t not know.



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