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vibrators / boyfriend

How can I use my vibrators on my boyfriend?

  • Put them in your mouth during oral
When giving your partner head, put a vibrator against your cheek to push some vibrations through your mouth.
  • Hold them up to the shaft or under the balls
Start on the lowest setting and kick it up as needed.
  • Use a vibrating cock ring around the shaft or around the shaft and under the balls
Doubles as clitoral stimulation and can also aid in more powerful orgasms as well as orgasm delay.
  • Put in a vibrating plug or beads or p-spot toy

Some anal toys (male specific or neutral) come with built in vibrators. Anal plugs, beads, or prostate toys are all sold in vibrating models.

I want to emphasis as your partner before you try any of these things because a large number of men find any sort of vibration against their junk much too sensitive to enjoy. If your man is interested, figure out what method of vibration you want to try out and see if you can find a toy that has a wide range of settings. This will allow you to start with (or keep) a very low level vibe going. It will also allow you to switch it up much higher if your guy really gets off on it.

sex toys in public

Ever on my wishlist was the vibrating underwear.

It wasn’t so much the idea of vibrating underwear that excited me, it was the idea that I could be getting off anytime/anywhere and no one else would know. The best kept, barely audible secret. But I have yet to find a pair of vibrating underwear that looks even slightly up to par with my standards of underwear. And vibrating or not, it better feel good when you put it on.

So instead, I decided to go the remote controlled vibrator route. I’d say that this was the next best thing, but with (potential) addition of your partner into the fun this toy can easily outdo any vibrating underwear.

It started when I got my last set of sex toys from EdenFantasys. My boyfriend and I had decided to use the bullet together out in public, but there was a giant cord and remote control attached to the toy. A bit of a bummer. I decided to see if there were any cordless vibrators that looked like they’d be within the range of style/texture/size that I’m into. Enter the vibrating egg.

To be fair, I was a little disappointed at first. This thing is huge for a toy that I feel should be discreet. I was looking forward to having clitoral stimulation, in public, but to hold this toy against your clit in public would not only be difficult but would protrude rather obviously from your pants. The best use in public, then, would be to insert it all the way inside of you. This is still a good time, but wasn’t quite the experience I was looking for. (And again, vibrating underwear finds it’s place in life)

But this toy quickly redeems itself with a series of strong vibrations (several different settings) and the most adorable remote control that can even be clipped onto your keychain. The best part – aside from the fact that it works – is that there is a little slide up panel that goes over the buttons so you don’t accidentally press them. It’s very slick. These remote controlled vibes are a whole new kind of vibrators.

We have yet to use this particular toy in public (it’s on the list) but we have played a bit with wearing it around the house and having it be controlled when we’re in different rooms. The fact that your partner can stimulate you when you least expect it, and when they’re not even present, is definitely exciting. Add the potential for discreet public fun, and you’ve got a good time.

Check out some older reviews herehere, or even here.

This product was provided to me free of charge by Eden Fantasys in exchange for an unbiased review.

and something small

As mentioned in my previous review, I am on the mission of updating my toys to newer and nicer models. I thought that I’d finally run out of things to try out, yet again, and was proven wrong. I tend to use a lot of my vibrating toys as clitoral vibrators even if they aren’t meant for it. I don’t get a whole lot of out having a vibrator inside of me. Dildos? Great. Vibrating dildos? More fun as a penetrative tool.

But my hand was getting tired. It’s hard work holding a massive dong up to your clit. Time to upgrade to a sportier model.

But clit toys aren’t really my specialty. I’ve got a drawer full of seven inchers.

I decided to go to my man Doc Johnson, I knew he’d have the answers. A week or so later this sex toy kit showed up at my door. The black magic pleasure kit. It was great for me because I’m wildly indecisive and this set came with three different toys, all in a silky black material. It even comes with lube, although I am partial to the lubes I already use and haven’t gotten a chance to try it out yet.

There is a bullet, a pocket rocket, and a traditional vibrator. I was most excited to use the pocket rocket because I’ve never owned one of that style before and it looked particularly light, good for holding to the clit for an hour or two straight. Given the appropriate stash of batteries…

The traditional vibrator was a nice mix, in case I just brought the kit with me somewhere and wanted some penetration. It’s a good average thickness and length too if you’re new to toys and want something very basic.

The bullet, however, ended up being the greatest of them all. I’d owned a previous cheap bullet-on-a-cord before, pulled out of an old fake vagina. It didn’t vibe very strong or long, and looked kind of crappy. This one had multi-speeds and felt slick to the touch.

I used it on my own a few times, the multi-speed remote really making a difference. If you start slow and then ramp up the vibration and then work it back down you can tease yourself into a pretty good orgasm.

The best use of all was in public with my boyfriend. The cord makes this a bit tricky, but it can be done if you’re sitting just right. Slip the bullet under your underwear against your clit, slide the cord out through your shorts or pants, and hand your partner the remote. We used it until the battery died, a good two hours of clit teasing.

Granted, a wireless bullet would be better for that sort of play. But it’s not an experience that can be downgraded. It was pretty glorious.

The only complaint I have is that the toys take AAA and AA batteries. I don’t know why I haven’t picked up a cosco sized pack of both yet, but I wish I could trade the same batteries back and forth between the toys as desired.

The vibrations are pretty strong on all of the toys, but the pocket rocket is probably the strongest of the three. Perhaps heightened by the fact that it’s great for direct stimulation. You can also use it to tease your nipples, if you’re into that.

This a great set, but if you’re not into all three or are only looking for one of the three I might suggest you buy them separately instead of the pack. If you’re new to toys, this a great starter set.

This product was provided to me free of charge by Eden Fantasys in exchange for an unbiased review.

Paps, vibrating bike seats, and shower sex.

Im freaked out about pap tests. Partly cause I don’t actually know what is done, cause Im scared I may be told something is wrong, and because it is a strange person looking at me. Im wondering if you have any suggestions to be more comfortable with them.

You can read an older post I’ve written on paps, here!

I cant ride a bike because the feeling of the seat on my vagina turns me on so much.All I can concentrate on is how horny I am. I noticed this when I turned like 13. But didnt think much of it then. It got worse and worse .Have you heard of this before? Oh and to add on… I found a vibe in the shape of a bike seat!! I want it so bad.

Some people are more sensitive than others. Its got its ups and downs, right? I’ve heard similar stories of horse back riding, motorcycles, and working out at the gym. Anything where you’re clenching your kegels, having direct clit stimulation, or being vibrated has the potential to get you going. Assuming you don’t want to be horny all of the time, my only real advice would be to an readjust yourself and ignore it. For bikes in particular, a different saddle might help… but it might just exasperate the situation. As to the vibrating bike seat, that is pretty fantastic.

Is okay to have sex in the shower? How do you deal with all of the water washing away your lube??

It’s perfectly fine to have sex in the shower, as long as you’re careful! The lube problem can be a tricky one. Not only does the water wash away your natural lubrication, but it washes away your bottled lube as well. This is why you want to get a waterproof lube, like the silicone ‘wet platinum’ lube. You can rinse it off with a bit of soap when you’re done. If you don’t have lube or don’t want to use lube in the shower, standing outside of the steady stream and using saliva can get you by in a pinch.

Non Adult Vibrators

I use a vibrating back massager as a vibrater. I never went to a store with vibrators alone, so I never had a chance ( or the money) to get a real one. Mine was like $5.00 at a dollar store and it works amazing. Have you heard of this?

As I mentioned in this post earlier today, you can use pretty much anything you want as a vibrator as long as it’s sanitary. I know people who have used vibrating toothbrushes, their phones, even the non-sharp end of a vibrating razor to get themselves off. Before I had any toys I used a body-massager as a vibrator. Whatever it takes, right? Go you for being resourceful.