Dildos, vibrators, magic beads and lube. What about some bondage? For my next review I decided to surrender myself to the rough stuff. Or the tough stuff? I don’t know. I’ve had various pairs of cuffs in my lifetime but have never owned anything like spreader bars. Like some, I quickly classified them as “more kinky” than other types of bondage and didn’t think much of them beyond that. It wasn’t in my typical array of items I would go for, which is exactly why I chose them when it came time for another review. How about the positives first?
It’s nice to solve your little problems in the bedroom. Lube to add more slickness, increase sensitivity, allow you to go for longer. Vibrators to get that added clitoral stimulation, to help build an orgasm more quickly, to heighten sensations that come with penetration. A nice cock ring to keep the cock extra hard, prevent an orgasm, or even lengthen one. The spreader bars purpose was to solve the little problem habit of me closing my legs. Sure, sometimes sex is intense. Sometimes you get sensitive. But sometimes holding out and continuing can erase those feelings and you can push through to an even more satisfying feeling. If you could only keep your legs open.
Soft cushioning in the cuffs for comfort.
The spreader bars also act as another handy, easily storable, yet strangely diverse bondage set that can not only keep you still and open-legged but assist in a variety of sexual positions. I mean, I can’t be the only one who thought “It sure would be nice if I had a nice stable bar to hold onto right now that happened to be right between my legs.”
Another thing cool about these cuffs? They’re pretty hard to get out of. If velcro’d tightly enough I was in for keeps! I would definitely recommend these bars as a fun holiday gift for your bondage-loving partner.
Okay, the Cons: While it is very stiff, I feel it’s unlikely this product will last a lifetime. It will, however, last many many many uses, and looks like it can take a beating. It can also be difficult to find both comfortable and enjoyable positions to use this toy in while having penetrative sex. Bent over (variations of doggy) seemed to be the easiest.
Stay tuned for more sex toy reviews in the near future, perhaps with some stocking stuffer ideas.
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This product was provided to me free of charge by Eden Fantasys in exchange for an unbiased review.