Oral Sex Toys

What is a good, inexpensive sex toy to use when giving a guy oral?

I’m not sure exactly what you mean. Do you mean a toy for you to use on yourself, for a toy to use on him while you’re going down on him? It’s not often I hear of people using toys with oral sex on men, that’s why I ask.

There are three that come to mind:

1. Cock ring

An inexpensive rubber cock ring (Like this one, for $2.49) can help in keeping him stiff and provide a more intense orgasm.

2. Bullet Vibe

A small bullet shaped vibrator (like this) can be held against your cheek or his shaft while performing oral – though many men find the vibration much much too intense to be pleasurable – ask your man first.

3. Anal play

Pick up a small prostate toy or some (anal beads) to use. Double the stimulation, double the fun?


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Do you know anything about fleshlights? Any recommendations? Are they made of materials that some people are allergic to?

A Fleshlight is a popular brand name masturbation sleeve, a sex toy made for men. In what I’ve read and my time spent on the internet (for whatever that is worth) I haven’t seen many complaints from men who have used them.

Here is the material information straight from their wikipedia. The information on their website (as stated below, as well) wasn’t quite as detailed.

The Fleshlight is stated to be made of medical and food grade, phthalate-free polymers.[4] According to the Fleshlight website, the insert is not made from latex, plastic or silicone. The Fleshlight FAQ [5] claims the material is “a company secret covered by a series of US patents” but according to the public patent, the material is an elastomeric gel being formed from a mixture of 90–94% by weight of plasticizing oil and of 5–9% by weight of a block copolymer comprising an admixture of a styrene ethylene butylene styrene block copolymer and a styrene ethylene propylene styrene block copolymer combined in a ratio of 1:5 to 5:1. Due to the chemical composition of this material, it is only suitable for use with water-basedlubricants, as oil-based lubricants or soaps will damage the material permanently.

Fleshlight also started “Fleshjack” which caters towards gay men. The toys themselves aren’t that much different beyond excluding the vaginal models and adding more ass/lip/non-descript models. Fleshlight and Fleshjack do mold some of their toys based off of real people, so there are quite a few varieties to choose from when ordering.








The sex toy market is considerably less saturated for men, and this toy does stand out as one of the ‘finer’ products. They are well known for their lifelike material and the ease in cleanup. I’ve also heard good things about using fleshlights as a stamina tool, ex: to practice lasting longer in bed.

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What kinds of masturbation devices are there for men?

Toys are often one of those things that are considered a woman’s pleasure. On the contrary, there are several sex toys made just for men, and almost any sex toy marketed for women can be used by men as well. Let’s start with the toys that are made for men.

The first place to start would be the ladies. I think of it like this.

Sex dolls are the entire picture. A blow up doll or a woman made out of a thicker and more expensive material that you can fuck. These dolls typically have three holes you can fuck. A realistic vagina is the next step down from that, starting at the hips and going all the way in. Sometimes there is even fake pubic hair for kicks. There are also rear versions of this if you’re really into anal sex. Masturbation sleeves are the most affordable version and the kind we hear about more often. For instance- the fleshlight.

There are several different variaties of the fleshlight, the one pictured above being about $65. This is just one kind of masturbation sleeve, though, and I’ve found them for as inexpensive as $10.

Next there are cock rings and vibrating cock rings. Both can create harder erections and build up to a more powerful orgasm. The vibrating cock rings can be fun alone but also add clitoral vibration if you’re fucking a woman.

– Masturbation break-

Okay, where was I? What?

Cock rings? Then… let’s get to the fun stuff. Prostate stimulators. Real men stick things in their ass because they know it’s where the secret button hides. What secret button? Well, we’ll call it the male version of the g-spot.

I like this picture because the index finger is as big as the cock. Yay scaling!

Prostate massage can either lead to intense orgasms or can help reach the mysterious male multiple orgasm. In other words, ejaculating without orgasm and then continuing. While you can do all of this without toys (just like you can play with your g-spot without a g-spot toy) it can certainly make stimulating the area easier.

Lastly, I wanted to point out again that many toys marketed typically towards women can be used by men. Vibrators and dildos can work great as anal toys or held against the balls for vibration. You can also use butt plugs or anal beads which are on the cheaper side and can enhance the strength of your orgasm when used correctly.

The point being, there are a ton of toys out there for men. No one should feel less masculine by wanting to increase the amount of pleasure they get from sex or masturbation. If you can’t afford any of these toys start by picking up a bottle of lubrication and playing with your ass with one finger while you stroke your cock with the other hand. This combo, simple and cheap, is a good place to start.


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I’ve always been intrigued by Fleshlights and hope to some day save up enough to purchase one. It’s only fair, considering my vast dildo collection… Doing some searching tonight I stumbled upon two new interesting Fleshlight sleeves I hadn’t stumbled upon before. Great gift ideas for the alcoholic True Blood fanatics in your life.