February 27, 2010 by suggestivetongue
It is typical for me to want to lay down in bed after a long day and watch a movie with my boyfriend. Lately, though, a movie has meant sure early bedtime. You get into bed and you curl up and you’re so comfortable and tired (and horizontal) that you just can’t help yourself anymore. At least I can’t. Snooze. So last night I said fuck the movie, got naked, crawled into bed, and waited. Sure enough, an orgasm was awaiting those with patience.
I feel like watching some videos, want to watch some videos?
And so we did. The position to be reviewed (and I haven’t in such a long time) is a sitting girl on top one. I don’t believe that this one is detailed quite as such in my book so I will do my best to describe the alterations we made to it.
1. Boyfriend sits on computer chair naked (preferably with something under his butt to catch the sure to be semen) and gets hard if he’s not already.
2. Girlfriend (moi, in this case) sits facing the computer on hard cock. Goal? Watch pornography as long as you can without making boyfriend cum.
The extent of this position was rocking slowly back attempting to not cum. There are a whole wide range of positions like this but this one is one of my favorites. If you’re not a fan of pornography (or dirtying up your computer chair) you can do the same position on the bed or couch with the same effect.
Why it’s hot? Teasing yourself into orgasm (or attempting not to orgasm) can create a bigger buildup than you’re used to. The intimacy of the position (sitting on your partner very close) can also increase the emotional buildup. Oh- and you get to watch porn. That’s hot in itself.
Why it’s messy? When he cums things will shrink down fast, and because of the position he’ll slip out more quickly than if he were on top of you or you were on top of him while he was laying down. Put your hand down to collect any mess, and use that handy towel you put down to finish cleaning up the rest.
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February 23, 2010 by suggestivetongue
As you may have noticed there is no exhibitionist post this week. Because I gave no warning I thought it would be fun to do another post along the same lines… and give my own personal thoughts on exhibitionism.
In my own words (because what else would I use?) an exhibitionist is a person who likes to show themselves off… or more specifically, show their genitals off. There is a certain level of psychological arousal behind this that I could get into but that’s really all you need to know. The opposite of exhibitionism is voyeurism. A voyeur enjoys watching.
In my own growth as a sexual identity I have never had any desire in exhibitionism. In fact, even thinking about getting walked in on while partially nude gives me the willies and makes sex relatively difficult. If it were planned exhibitionism (though that isn’t really the point, is it?) I would be more excited about the concept because I would have time to prepare myself.
The closest I’ve gotten to showing off my goods has been having sex outside. Now granted my backyard was a pretty safe place to get it on but my neighbors (one of which was my teacher) often worked out in the yard and we had a low fence. There were passing thoughts of what would happen if they happened to glance over the fence (or look through it) and in those instances I felt empowered. I am in my backyard, and I am naked, and that is my right. It is only nudity, and that is how I felt about it.
Because I doubt this is the experience many of you have had with experience, why don’t you tell me what your experience have been? Do you enjoy exhibitionism? What about voyeurism? Have you enjoyed the stories that have been posted, did you relate to them in any way?
For the purpose of this post, here is the full color version of my header (which is me).
Look forward to hearing your thoughts.
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February 17, 2010 by suggestivetongue
This is a guest blog, I did not write this. Enjoy.
I was with a group of friends one night and we decided to play truth or dare. The game quickly turned “Dare.” No one was picking truths and instead we focused only on the dares. A guy and a woman took on the dare to run down the street naked in the dark. They ran around the block once. Another woman said she would copy her breast on the copy machine and send a fax to 6 friends. Another guy agreed to go to work the next day and have his photo taken with the woman of his choice while he was naked. My challenge was to post on craigslist and offer to strip naked for the first person that answered. I posted on craigslist that I had a dare with some friends and I had to strip for a person that answered the ad. I quickly had 5 responses and went on to get 25 responses. I picked one of the women at random. She said she would like to watch me strip. We talked on Yahoo messanger for about 5 minutes and then we decided we were both ready to do it. I had to have a witness from my group of friends verify that I did it. So Courtney quickly offered. I put on the webcam but didn’t show my face. I was more nervous that Courtney was watching than being watched by the woman on craigslist.
I had to take the orders from the woman so she told me to take off my shirt. I took off my shirt. She told me to take off my shoes. I took off my shoes. She told me to remove my pants. I took off my pants. She told me to dance around a bit. So I danced around for a few minutes. She then told me to take off my underwear. I looked over at Courtney who was carefully watching and I slid my underwear down. The woman on yahoo told me to dance around again so I did. She then asked me to stroke myself. I nervously began to stroke myself. Courtney was enjoying the view. She told me it was the first time she had ever watched a guy stroke himself. After a few minutes, the lady from yahoo told me to release myself. So I stroked myself a little faster until I could not hold on any longer and had my orgasm. It was very intense to have Courtney watch. I felt as if we had shared a special moment. There is something about being watched. There is something about giving up control of your actions to someone else. I could not help but to post an craigslist post again. You can see it here. . . http://newyork.craigslist.org/mnh/cas/1604438651.html In fact, maybe one of you will respond with the words, “I want to watch.”
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February 14, 2010 by suggestivetongue
There will be tumblr updates every 15 minutes (automatically) for the next couple hours. I’ll repeat again tomorrow and let everyone know when they’re starting via twitter. Enjoy, and comment on those you like!
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February 13, 2010 by suggestivetongue
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There is a certain frustration that comes with not being aroused. Being a woman, it can sometimes be harder to arouse yourself (or get aroused) than it can be for a man. For instance, simply taking birth control can lower your libido. I guess that’s just another way it helps prevent pregnancy, isn’t it? I am all to aware of how frustrating it can be for men when you’re woman is naked and wet and you’re hard and on top of her and all of a sudden things just don’t happen. Don’t understand? Picture this: You’re just about to have sex, you’re rock hard, and then you put it in her and you go limp. You can’t get hard again. You want to. You really do. But you can’t. It’s that same sort of emotion that goes through the mind of a woman who wants to have sex (she really does) but the time just isn’t right for whatever reason.
22/F asks…
What can I do when my boyfriend wants to have sex with me and I’m just not in the mood?
The first and most obvious answer is don’t have sex. Don’t ever have sex if you don’t want to. A lot of people say that you should bite your tongue and put out to make your relationship exist more smoothly and make your partner happier. The problem with this is that you are lying to your partner when you have sex with them when you don’t want to. You essentially have to pretend to be aroused. Pretending to be aroused is a great lead in to faking an orgasm, and that is absolutely never okay.
So what do you do? You can try to get in the mood. Let him go down on you until you get wet and see if that gets you there. Try to talk dirty and see if that gets you in the mood. Watch porn together and touch yourself like you would if you were alone. If you’re feeling really giving- you can get him off by hand or tell him to jerk off in front of you. There are plenty of ways to get around not be aroused. Just- don’t feel bad about it! We can’t all be aroused 24/7 or at exactly the right time. Life just isn’t like that. If things don’t work out the way you want them to find some sort of in-between. A compromise. Life is all about compromise, and I assure you that there is always time for more sex.
Have a sex question? Want some advice? Email me at suggestivetongue@gmail.com
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