I once read in a magazine that you should occasionally treat yourself to a date. While the magazine had many good ideas I thought that I might expand on it and bring in some of my own ideas. Let me know what you think.
The magazine said that you should dim the lights, get in bed, and tease yourself to a great orgasm. Basically, be your own fuck buddy. You are in control of your orgasm and you can have whatever you want, enjoy it. Me? I didn’t think that sounded like a good enough idea. It was too simple. Isn’t that just code for “masturbate, and make it good”? I think we all do that often enough, let’s get creative.
Last night I though I would expand on this idea. I had no plans of writing about it (and really only made this connection today) but I think some of you might benefit from trying it as well.
One, draw yourself a bath
If you don’t have a bath, continue reading but know I won’t be making any alterations for you. What I did was entirely in the bathtub and unless you have a giant rubber tub big enough to comfortable relax in you’re out of luck.
Two, make sure the bath is bordering on too hot. I like to get into the tub as it’s filling up with water so my body can adjust to the hot temperature. I have especially cold feet so getting into a hot tub all at once is too much for me. Filling it up around you let’s you better gauge the right temperature. Add bubble bath if you like, but I think it fogs the visuals.
Three, bring a toy.
The toy I used was a clear rubber dildo (veins and balls included) with a suction cup on the bottom. The suction cup would come in handy later on. It is preferable to use a toy that doesn’t have batteries if you’re going to be in the tub unless it is waterproof. Check, first!
Four, water proof lube.
When I started using the toy I wanted to see how it would work with no lube. While I knew that it was iffy I thought it would be fun anyways. No surprise- it doesn’t work. If you’re already aroused you’ll get the toy in okay but because the water washes away all your natural lubrication you’ll be sliding the toy against a raw pussy. Get some wet platinum or comparable waterproof lubricant and put that on the toy before you use it.
Five, water in the vagina isn’t fun.
It isn’t. I suggest scooting yourself up out of the water and putting the toy in and then getting back in the water. Feel free to thrust in and out once the toy is in you, but know if you take it all the way out and put it back in again you’ll get more water in the vagina. I find it pretty uncomfortable. You’ll get some regardless (those who haven’t played in the tub) but whatever you can do to slim that down is good.
So you’re in the tub and you’ve got your toy- so get to. Tease yourself, close your eyes, fantasize… go at your own pace. There is no one there that you’ve got to help reach an orgasm but yourself. Once you start to get close, stop and just lay back in the warmth of the tub. Go again, and stop again. Do this until you you find yourself too close.
At this point I sat up a bit and suctioned the toy to the bottom of the tub. This is *especially* awesome because it’s like you’re fucking someone in the tub- assuming your tub is large enough to do this. Go up and down a bit and enjoy, cum if you want to. It’s all up to you.
Once you cum fill the tub back up with warm water (it’s probably cooled off a bit by now) and relax. If you’ve got any energy left in you shave your legs, pussy, under your arms, wherever else… some exfoliating is always nice too. Hey, if you’re going all out to make yourself feel good you might as well go mini spa while you’re at it!
One thing that I found funny was that the water stayed warmer while I was masturbating than it normally does when I’m taking a bath. Body heat, much?
*Optional*
- Using the faucet to cum. Scoot down so your clit is under the faucet and turn on the water. Make sure the water is a good temperature first! Direct the water onto your clit and cum (fast.)
- Use a vibrator. While I think it’s more fun to use a toy and keep it inside you while you play with your clit some people prefer the battery powered vibration. If you like that, make sure it’s waterproof.
- Go for DP. Double penetration. Bring anal beads or a butt plug with you. Being relaxed and aroused with no interruptions is a good time to experiment.
- Fantasize. Really. Get dirty about it. You’re in the tub, you can get clean afterwards!
