This question might be too much but here goes. Wondering if you have any tips for finding your g-spot with your fingers. I managed to hit it with toys but when I try to find it with my fingers…it’s just not working. I lose my patience and/or my arm gets tired. Any suggestions would be great! Thanks!
The g-spot is on the upper wall of the vagina, which is why you will see g-spot toys as being curved upwards. G-spot toys are great because they give you the extra leverage to reach the spot. I find that stimulating my own g-spot with that come-hither motion gives my hand a cramp, so I rarely attempt playing with it on my own. Not so much of a bad thing if you’re more of a clit masturbator.
The first thing you’ll want to do is get aroused so the blood flows to the genitals and the tissues become more prominent. This will help you pick out the g-spot. Insert your fingers and curve them upwards. It’s likely you’ll feel anything just running your fingers around, so try pressing your fingers in to the upper wall. I think it is helpful to look for a particular sensation rather than a particular “spot.” The spot will feel different once you find it, but it’s the deep sensation you get from stroking on it that will tell you you’ve got the right place.
I think it’s quite nobel to try and find it on your own, with your fingers. I would try the above for a while, even trying putting a pillow under your butt to prop yourself up a little higher. Keep pressing inwards and see if you can find it. If it were me, I would continue using the toy for g-spot stimulation. You’re not going to get as tired as quickly, which will lead to greater stimulation, and perhaps a more powerful orgasm.
Have fun and enjoy yourself, there’s no right or wrong way to do that.
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