Here are some of my favorite tips from this latest cosmo in bold, and my suggestions below.
Use your bra to bind his hands behind his back, then cover your nipples in yummy toppings and command him to lick them off.
I don’t know what kind of bra you’re wearing, but might definitely wouldn’t work well as a binding. Not to mention, it would stretch the material out faster if I’m tugging and pulling on it on purpose. I have no suggestion here. It’s just weird. How about you put your bra back on and go out for dessert together.
Press a fork (firmly, but don’t break the skin or anything) into different parts of his body – his butt cheeks, his pecs, his thighs.
Instead of making him feel like leftovers, tell your partner to close their eyes and then run your fingers along different parts of their body, gently teasing them as you get closer and closer to the genitals.
As you’re riding him, clamp down on his earlobes with your fingers, and pull on them to rock yourself forward and backward.
As a girl-on-top alternative, sit your partner down on a chair or couch. Grab the back of whatever you’re sitting on and then slide yourself up and down slowly while you kiss your partners neck, ear, or whisper dirty things in their ear. No soft tissue damage required.
Slick your lip-plumping gloss (the stuff that stings a little) on your mouth, then quickly kiss very sensitive spots on his bod.
I’m not a fan of playing with the tingling products, especially ones not meant for the bedroom. You can’t be sure how your partner will react, especially on the sensitive bits. If you want to experience with tingling sensations, grab a piece of ice and gently drag it around your partners body. You can also use cold water. Then turn a fan on and direct it at the two of you. Best if it’s particularly warm out.
Blindfold him, then give him bitch directions (“Touch me here. No, not there, here”). When you can’t be seen, the bossy badass comes out.
Most people call saying things “Touch me here, no not there, here” useful communication, not being bitchy. Blindfold him if you want, but use directions like this as a regular part of intercourse.