sorry if this is too personal, but are you in a relationship currently?

Sure am.

Are there any toys that are just for men?

They are tons! While many toys marketed towards women can also be used for men, there are toys directly marketed towards or made for men. Check some out here or here!

What is a good date night meal?

It depends on what you and your partner like! I think the best date night meals are the ones that you feel comfortable cooking and eating. You don’t want to be thinking about the stress of preparing some big fancy meal before your date – it’s your date too. Find something the both of you like and if it’s something you feel comfortable preparing, get to! If you’re more experienced in the kitchen take a recipe you’ve been wanting to expand on or a recipe that looks new and exciting and give that a shot. I don’t think there are any limits here.