I’m a huge fan of oral sex…I personally think it rivals regular intercourse at times. Am I the only girl who feels this way? My friends act as if I’m crazy…I just think they’ve never experienced good oral sex if they don’t like it. Thoughts?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Definitely not! The truth behind intercourse? As a woman… it can be a lot more difficult to get off. We have all sorts of buttons and switches and sometimes it feels great to get fucked but sometimes it’s nice to just have a warm wet mouth on our clit. While there can certainly be badoral sex… it is a lot harder, in my opinion, to fail at stimulating with your mouth. It’s warm, it’s wet, it can suck or nibble or bite or caress. It’s all about you and getting you off.

I wouldn’t say that they’ve never experienced good oral sex if they prefer intercourse still. Everyone has their own preferences and even a preference can change over time. It is possible that they’ve never had good oral sex and that because of that they prefer sticking to the standard penetration. Their loss. It could also be that you haven’t had mind-blowing penetrative sex and therefore you prefer the quick fix of a good oral fixation. Honestly? I don’t think that’s necessarily true either way. You like what you like and sometimes there doesn’t have to be a reason why.

Just make sure that you aren’t limiting your sexual exploration because you’ve found one thing you really like. If you don’t like something it could just be because you haven’t found the right way to do it yet.