So I was watching the new season of America’s Next Top Model (ANTM) and there is this very cute blond contestant. It turns out she had sex at sixteen and got pregnant the first time and married the man who got her pregnant. She is not the only girl in this cycle who got pregnant the first time she had sex. I thought it was interesting because later in the episode they are talking about drag and she doesn’t know what drag is. I thought- what? Who doesn’t know what drag is? She seemed very, very innocent. Very pure in the traditional sense of being pure.

I have to be reminded constantly that not everyone knows the length of the anus or the difference between vaginal lubrication and discharge. What asexual means in terms of sexuality and in terms of reproduction. I have to remind myself that I’m a little obsessed and there are people out there that might not even realize these things exist.

How educated do you feel about sex? Think about it for a second. Is there anything that comes to mind that you can honestly admit you don’t know very much about? Is it something you want to know more about? Do you like not knowing some things or do you want to be more informed but don’t know what it is you need to be more informed about?

As always, if you have any sex-questions or need advice email me at suggestivetongue@gmail.com.

I’ll answer any question to the best of my ability.