Any tips on maintaining a thicker erection? I’m about 6 inches when hard, but I rarely can get it up except by myself when masturbating. It’s hard (pardon the pun) not being able to keep it up for my girlfriend
Absolutely.
First off I want to state the obvious though, I’m of the other kind of genitalia. I do not have a penis and therefore I open the comments up to those who do have one to give their own advice and personal experience with this. I’m sure many of you will have more intimate details that I don’t know about.
Onward to what I do know;
1. Work the base
Practice gripping the base of your cock tightly once it becomes erect. I find this works better if you make a ring with your fingers and press down a bit. Playing with your balls at the same time can add some extra bonus points. If you don’t want to keep your hand down there or it gets in the way pick up a cock-ring. A good cock ring will fit comfortably without making you feel suffocated but will still feel a little snug. A cock-ring will hold more blood in your erect penis making it more stiff.
2. Work your mind
The more aroused you are the more aroused your love-stick will get. Get your head into the game. Think dirty kinky things that make you go boing when you’re on your own. That brings me to another important point.
Sometimes guys have no problem getting (and staying) hard by themselves but when they get to being with someone else it becomes more difficult. The reasons can be vast but generally revolve around the need to perform, a bit of nervousness, or focusing more on pleasing their partner than themselves. My advice would be to slow down and focus on foreplay. Focus on what makes you feel good. Communicate with your partner and just do what it takes to make you hard with no pressure. Know if you don’t stay hard that’s fine and you can please her instead. Just have fun. You shouldn’t need to stress out about anything and when you realize that– things will cum easier.
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